Hating People is a BIG no!

i had quarreled with a friend of mine on my theory. 'It's okay to be hated... But Hating people is a BIG no'. He was obviously not positive on this matter. He thought the other way round which i supposed sooo wrong!

He said that ' ppl are obliged to hate sumone... But don't ever let people hate u' Sorry Nai* if ur quote is incorrect! The first sentence is absolutely out of people norm. People are never obliged to hate someone. I know, it's acceptable to hate those odious fellas but to easily hating them...i don't think so!

the second sentence is not that correct even it has got its' point there. 'Dont let people hate u'. We dont possess any power to control someone else's feelings. We can present with nice attitude, adorable and kind-hearted... But, these could not ensure that no one wouldn't hate u! So again.. i disagree..

My doctrine is 'It's okay to be hated'.... i realised it sounded a bit pathetic. I seem to accept people do bad things on me. But, wut can we do?! we are so vulnerable to be hated. Even we try our best, there is still a small chance that we mite get detested!

Then, my second point is ' Don't hate people'. Again, i know..it's full with kindness to the fact that we are avoiding to use the term 'ENEMY' here. I believe, we ourself the one who create enemies. If we don't label someone to be our enemy, then we wont have one. So, try ur best to avoid detesting people.

Guess...thats the issue here!!