Shape our adolescents!!!

i juz had a session which taught me how to handle an adolescent. Not that the session was a hands-on session....it was juz basically a brief lecture...and the doctor said...it was an exposure...

aniwei..i thought, adolescent was a simple stage wer we all shud have passed it successfully. i dint see anything special in this stage. i left it without any remark.

but after the brief session with an expert....i decided that my adolescent was sumting bigger than huge. an adolescent can turn to become a refined adult or he/ she can juz turn to become a total messed up adult... wut determine those outcomes are their shape in this stage.

If they are handled in correct way, they wud become sum1 that can make the nation proud. But if they are left in limbo...helpless....unfortunately, they will become sum1 that we hardly recognize. are they from our lots or from sumone else's...

I never learnt that nurturing the youngsters wud be so difficult. could not imagine wen i start my own family and having kids. it wud be a titanic responsibility.

wut i learned there were:

1. Dont keep pressuring the kids especially wen they do nothing harmful

2. Learn on how to talk to those kids...not in their manner but in an understanding grown up's manner.

3. Understand the process of being an adolescent. let them choose but at the same time guide them.

4 fill them with knowledge that they ought to know....teach them abt life, danger and sex.

5. Be their friends and stop patronizing!

i think all those people out there should have learnt things before they settle down and have kids. Kids should get the best from their parents in order to actively grow!

I cant stand the fact that we keep having kids as young as ten turns to become a prostitute or sumting worst. Those kids are treasures for the country. They shud nt live for nothing.

On top of all those lessons, i believed that being non judgmental to people is a crucial entity in order to make this world a better place to live in. (Too many words i guess!!! ) Wutever they do is not for us to evaluate. the goodness or the worst part of it. If we mean to help, hands should we offer.... not insults! everybody does mistake aniwei...!